ok well these are concepts i hear often in LGBT circles.
Gender roles within being lesbian, gay or otherwise.

Do you find it a fair way of looking at it?
are there more "butch" or "femme" women.

for myself i don't see myself as either role but more like i transition between the roles.

some days i can be more "on it" and boyish, all i want is to wear jeans and t shirt and not brush my hair < ya i know that's really lazy.

then other days i want to dress it up a bit aned be all sweet and girlie, with the kittens and puppys and such.

how do others feel about this?

Hi Roxie
Hullo !!! Well I,ve just come back from the big smoke last night.We went to see "we will rock"
the queen musical...it was absolute fab .It was saturday night and the 3ooo t/h show.
It looks like it is going to be the most successful musical show in the west end.Absolutely believable for any one who has seen the show.
The answer to your question about role play etc,well and I am also stuck in this " Extremely confusing Gender pardox"and probably always will be !!!!
Which is the real me .... !!!!???
Going back to the "show" it was absolutely great,and as I sat in the audience,the same old thoughts kept going round in side my head.
Which role would I play,the "prescence of girl power " was truely awsome and dynamite.I would just loved to have played one of the girl parts,nothing new there,but where do I fit in on this crazy gender spectum paradox of ours
It seem,s that some times that some of us have to be "girly" at times to be "boyish" and "boyish" to be "girly".
We all so got to meet the real "Mel c " who was playing at another theartre in blood brothers,not far from the Dominion .
I was in my element....girl power certainly rocked and ruled that night.
Take care see you at the next meeting hopefully from Sophie